While there are many factors that contribute to a successful small group experience, these three characteristics are currently at the top of my list.
A successful small group…
1. Draws Others into a Deeper Life-Giving Relationship with Christ
Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is “life”. A dynamic small group evokes the life-giving aroma of Christ. One way this is reflected depends on how the Bible is used in the group.
The “written Word” should always draw people into a deeper relationship with the “Living Word” (i.e., Christ). Exchanging inspiring insights from the Bible with each is not the end goal of a small group. God never intended for us to worship the written Word. Notice how Paul taught this critical perspective to the Colossian Christians. “We teach in a spirit of profound common sense so that we can bring each person to maturity. To be mature is to be basic. Christ! No more, no less.” (Colossians 1:28 MSG).
2. Is Governed by a Healthy Group Covenant
At the beginning of every new BLE small group, we ask the members to agree to ten governing principles for how they will relate to others in the group. This establishes a relational covenant within the group and elevates Biblical standards for a God honoring fellowship. God is a God of covenants. Through Christ’s blood, God established a new covenantal relationship with us and healthy covenants are powerful if used Biblically.
One specific covenant used empowers each member to take personal responsibility in “owning” their part in providing a “life-giving” group experience for others. It builds trust and provides protection against unproductive dialogue, dogmatism and domineering personalities.
3. Promotes Collegial Discipleship
If you are in a small group where you only come to listen to a speaker is not my opinion of a successful small group. This model is basically replicated being in “church” where you’re role is just to listen but not to engage in healthy Biblical “koinonia”.
In the New Testament the phrase “one another” is used 58 times. Romans 12:5 states we are “individually members one of another”. Below are some examples of the phrase.
- Be devoted to one another
- Honor one another
- Be of the same mind with one another
- Accept one another
- Bear with one another
- Submit to one
- Encourage one another
- Admonish one another
This kind of relational connection necessitates person-to-person relational interaction. It requires commitment, repetition, deference, kindness, exhortation of people who care and speak into each other’s lives. This is the essence of “collegial discipleship.”
Over the last 40 years, BLE leaders have led literally thousands of small groups. We’re still learning but we have learned some vital principles and approaches in how to lead “Life-Giving” and successful small groups.
If you would like to learn and grow in how you or your church can grow and develop dynamic small group experiences, contact info@bleonline.org.